January 16, 2024

"there is more knowledge to be gained from those that have nothing than there is wisdom to be gained from those that were given everything."

 Everyone aspires to greatness, but too many people spend their time watching others be great, especially fictional versions that embody greatness. Ive already written about how I was never into super heroes, I never wore a marvel shirt. I never cared *that* much about someone who I knew wasn’t real. I care about real people. I care enough about those that society holds out to the masses as those that should be emulated. The thing is, the ones that should be emulated aren’t really pedestalized or broadcasted. The ones that truly should be emulated are around you. That’s why there’s a huge difference in being Rich versus being Wealthy. That’s why the definition of “greatness” means different things to different people. For one, greatness could very well mean being famous or on the cover of a magazine, Hollywood movies, perhaps? For others, though, greatness may mean living your life to the fullest. But then that requires defining “fullest.” What is a full life? Is it truly great to live a full life? What does that look like for someone born into wealth with options to travel the world over and receive best in class education, dining on the most delectable of delicacies, and residing in resorts without worrying about the daily room rate. What is a full life for someone born poor? When every single day you have to struggle for clean water, work a dangerous job in a lithium mine, endure the eighteen hour days of a sweatshop, meticulously craft a cheap electronic device that will be shipped across the world sold for 100 times, sometimes 10,000x more than your daily wage.

What about for someone in the middle? Someone just lucky enough not to have to work 18 hours a day every day, but also… lucky enough to have to put some calculations into how long they can stay at a luxury resort.

Sounds odd, but like Ken Honda, author of many books one of which is “Happy Money,” I have grown up around and spent time with very, very wealthy people, very, very rich people, and has the immense joy of growing up around and spending time with poor people. Re-reading that sentence from my journal of a memory from when I lived in Spain replayed itself; I would always spend time chatting with, from what I gathered, refugees or immigrants. Poorly dressed, unkempt, & of middle eastern facial features. They had lived in Spain long enough to learn the language and long enough to learn how to make a quick buck: selling beer for 1 Euro to the goers of “Botellon’s (Bo-tay-yone’s)” roughly translated as Street Parties. Spanish culture, and European Culture, is admittedly different from ours over here in the US, and so are their ways of enjoying nights out. Frankly it’s a good business plan: Buy a large case of beer, ice it down, and sell it for 1 Euro. The profit margins may be small, BUT you get to enjoy your remaining stockpile from what you didn’t sell. It's a side hustle, no doubt. I define side hustle a little differently. I believe a side hustle is something that can only be done for a few hours a day due to external constraints. This case - party hours. To me, a side hustle can never have the potential to develop into a full time career. Other constraints generally have to do around originality - in this case it's beer produced elsewhere, bought at a regular price and sold at  markup external to the established supply chain. Other examples are flipping items on ebay or wherever, from places like garage sales and yard sales. While it does have a full time facet - see thrift stores, I define it as a side hustle because an activity like that ultimately brings more internal fulfillment than monetary. It's just fun. 


I write all that to write this, there is more knowledge to be gained from those that have nothing than there is wisdom to be gained from those that were given everything.


January 15, 2024

Create your own positive reality

 Life is full of distractions always telling us "later... later..."


Focus on now. The beauty of every moment. Remember that getting lost too far in the past of into the future is detrimental to your current state of mind & actually has the power to change you. Don't let the mistakes of your past or the many possibilities of the future prevent and actively sabotage the you, that you want to become. 

Creating a more positive you is easy, whatever new you, maybe the new isnt so positive. Whatever. Changing who you are easy. You see who you want to be, what you want, it's the projections of others that prevent you from achieving this. The other people you surround yourself with - are they cheering you on or are they hoping you trip up? Everyone loves an underdog story until you surpass them. 

So if others keep telling you otherwise and preventing you from truly becoming who you want to be, how do you stop it? Immersion. 

You know what you need to do, then the voices of doubt kick in.

Fall back on your belief. Hold onto that version of you that you want and don't ever let any setbacks become excuses. Fine, let them, but only temporarily. Setbacks are setups for comebacks.

The power of 3

if you can do something 3 times, you have created a habit. 3 days turns into 3 weeks turns into 3 months turns into 3 years. That's the power of raising something to the third power. Don't let bad news & bad habits be the only things that come in 3's. 

Start by finding 3 positive changes you want to have in your life. Find 3 things: images, quotes, or other reminders. Place them somewhere you can see them regularly.

Next, when the tough gets going - find 3 negatives you keep returning to in your head. Find them. name them. Turn them into a positive. 

When you dive into your new self, your new passion, your new hobby - pay attention to everyone but listen to no one.

And ask a lot of questions. Sometimes what stands between you and a better outcome is a few better questions. 

People will tell you all kinds of different ways they "got there" but the truth is, NONE of them will work for you unless you COPY them. Otherwise, you have to figure it out for yourself because you have to SEE yourself doing the work.

Take the time and patience to grow into something special & you will truly love the new change in you. And you will have it done it all for yourself, by yourself.















Look for the opportunity in chaos


In the journey of life, we all encounter crossroads where the path ahead seems shrouded in darkness. These moments, often marked by overwhelming stress and uncertainty, are the crucibles that forge our future selves. The essence of growth lies in how we navigate these turbulent waters. It's not just about enduring the storm, but learning how to dance in the rain.


Consider the story of Emily, a young entrepreneur who started her own business with dreams as high as the sky. Her initial months were a rollercoaster of highs and lows. Just when she thought she had it all figured out, a major client backed out. The crushing weight of potential failure loomed over her. She felt like her reality was crumbling. But in that moment of despair, Emily leaned on the principles of Stoicism. She realized that while she couldn't control the client's decision, she could control her reaction to it. Instead of viewing it as a failure, she saw it as an opportunity for growth. She revisited her business strategy, diversified her client base, and emerged stronger. What seemed like a breakdown was actually a breakthrough.


Another example is found in the life of Alex, a seasoned investor. He had always prided himself on his analytical skills and market foresight. However, during a particularly volatile period in the financial market, his predictions went awry, leading to significant losses. The experience was jarring. Alex could have succumbed to despair, but he chose to view this setback as a learning experience. He delved deeper into understanding market psychology and emerged with a more robust investment strategy. This shift in perspective from failure to learning was his breakthrough.


In both stories, Emily and Alex faced moments where their realities seemed to break down. But by embracing the Stoic view that we control our perception of events, they transformed these moments into opportunities for significant breakthroughs.


The next time you find yourself on the brink of a meltdown, or when it feels like your world is falling apart, remember these stories. Look for the hidden opportunity in the chaos. Embrace the notion that failure is not a setback, but a stepping stone to growth. Your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of the breakdown.

I think we all can relate to this, especially when times get tough in our lives. Everyone has these difficult moments of growth. What separates a successful future iteration of yourself is how you handle these stressful events. Stoicism would posit that you are in control of how you perceive these stress inducing events. Are they positive or negative? Failure is just growth. Failing leads to breakthroughs.

Next time you feel like a meltdown or your reality is breaking down around you, find the breakthrough

High Leverage Tenets

 - Stay Positive but don't ignore problems

- confidence can become arrogance

- take the high ground or the high ground will take you

- do the right things for the right reasons

- it's ok to Quit (retreat) a tactical objective if it means succeeding in the strategic objective; it's ok to quit

- Reflect & Diminish

- The Less you talk, the more people listen when you do talk

- Set the example

- It's all on you, not about you

Tenets

 Mood follows action.

Focus is the key - focus on the goal line with periodic adjustments.

Foreshadowing Failure can motivate in succeeding meeting your goals

Be aware of self-sabotage

Routine is the sign of an intelligent man

"Am I being productive or just active?"

"Am I inventing things to do to avoid the important?"

"The existential vacuum manifests itself mainly in a state of boredom." - Viktor Frankl

Doing > Having

What you do > How you do it

If you cannot fail, you cannot learn

It is much easier to strive for perfection when you are never bored

Knowledge is Money


January 14, 2024

My Notebooks

I have amassed a smattering of notebooks, of all sizes, small, medium, to large. I'm organizing them and what I've done is go through and tear out pages to tape into larger ones, that way I have margins to keep adding to them. Some of them have three plus iterations so I need to review to bring my final to life on this website. I wonder if any of my science fiction writing could be interwoven? I feel this creative yearning, this muscle to flex and release. All I can do is write, a little bit, each day. You cant lose if you dont quit.

Update: 01/15/24

Here are a few links to my other blogs, when I was into blogging - I organized my content better. 



Having a Side Hustle turned into my realization that passive income isnt truly passive - an article I wrote about on my website caeliancapital.com

Soon, I will be adding those posts here for everyone to read.